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No one really consciously chooses to be a victim. It is more a way we fall into, and we fall into it because, it works. It becomes a strategy to deal with life — whether it is staying safe in one’s comfort zone, numbing oneself, finding company, getting attention, avoiding being responsible for something in one’s life, etc. I have met many otherwise extraordinary people who just cannot be with what they perceive as failure in life — that life isn’t going the way they want — it is just too painful. To deal with this, they maintain their cover by explaining away the responsibility, and in the process unknowingly give away their power to change the situation.
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